Balance
Dictionary Definition
To bring into harmony or proportion
Word Meaning to Book Contributor:
Husband to Book Author
During the early years of my career, my wife experienced various health complications that required frequent doctor visits. At that time, cell phones were a new invention and often had unreliable reception. Most of her appointments were scheduled during weekdays and working hours, which overlapped with my office commitments. I had to find a way to take care of my wife's health while also fulfilling my professional responsibilities.
Her illness was chronic, so this was not a challenge that would last only a few days—it was a long-term situation. I recognized the importance of balancing my professional and personal life, ensuring I could support my wife's health while maintaining my job.
After discussing my situation with my employer, I arranged to start work very early in the morning, allowing me to complete my daily assignments by early afternoon. This made it possible to schedule her medical appointments in the afternoon, so I could attend them without worrying about unfinished work. Being present at her appointments allowed me to fully understand the care she needed.
Initially, it took a lot of effort to adjust, but over time, I developed a rhythm. Achieving balance required a shift in mindset, and with my workplace's full support, I was able to meet both my professional and personal responsibilities.
This experience taught me that balance is about making conscious adjustments to meet the demands of different areas of life. It means being adaptable, seeking support when needed, and prioritizing what is most important at any given time.